A friend of mine really upset me with his comments yesterday. Essentially he thinks I am denying myself pleasure by holding off sex until I'm in a relationship. He came to this conclusion upon reading this post. I think he completely misunderstood the point and frankly, I'm offended.
Perhaps he is thinking of his own vested interests, seeing that he and I were fun buddies once and now he is newly single, looking for a new fun buddy. I flirt with the idea, but get my fun out of flirting. I have no desire to actually follow through. He is misinterpreting my flirtyness with wanting. And for some reason thinks he has the authority to tell me what I really truly want and desire.
Not sure how he's come to that conclusion...
Well you should tell this mate to bugger off.
ReplyDeleteHolding off until your in a relationship is a good idea.
Having legitimate feelings for someone is the way to be.